Top Mistakes to Avoid When Choosing a Senior Living Community

Start by assessing their current lifestyle and health needs. Are they active and independent, or do they need help with daily tasks? It’s also wise to consider future needs—look for communities that offer a continuum of care so transitions are easier if health situations change.

Beyond the brochure basics, ask about staff availability, resident routines, medical support, social activities, and emergency protocols. Try to speak with residents, observe interactions, and attend a mealtime or activity if possible. The feel of the place often says more than the facts.

Yes. Many communities have a base price but charge extra for meals, medication management, laundry, events, or doctor visits. Always ask for a detailed fee structure—and what might increase over time. It’s okay to ask, “What’s not included?”

The earlier, the better. Beginning the conversation before a health crisis gives your parent time to adjust, visit options, and participate in the decision. It also makes the eventual transition smoother and more empowering for them.

Include them in every step. Ask them what they want—quiet spaces, vegetarian food, prayer rooms, friendly neighbors? Go on tours together, and make it a joint discovery rather than a handover. Often, just being heard makes a huge difference.